It's up to you

"I owe my success to having listened respectfully to the very best advice, and then going away and doing the exact opposite."



Advice...everybody has it and everybody is always willing to give one. It is so amazing, how everybody always has a solution to YOUR problems, but fails to find one for his own!

Whatever you do in your life, there will be people that will constantly teach you how you are supposed to act, eat,sleep,work,study or whatever. They will eagerly push you to follow the plan they have for you, assuring you that this is the only way for you to act! Many of us adopt that pattern and build their lives on it! But they are deadly wrong! Why? I am gonna explain...

Success? How do you define it...Anna Quindlen once said- "If your success is not on your own terms, if it looks good to the world but does not feel good in your heart, it is not success at all!" That's my point-everybody has a different perception for success. What is success to me, might be a failure to you and vise versa. Everybody has different expectations for his life, so we should all act individually upon reaching them.

If you are having a trouble making an important decision...OK...come and ask me for an advice and I will give you one, but it will be from my point of view, it will be build upon my expectations and the way I see life. And that might not be what you want!

It is YOUR life. YOU and only you should decide which direction it will go! Nobody is allowed to tell you which way to go...unless you let them! So get your things straight! Decide what you want and chase it! You will stumble, you will try to persudae yourself you can't do it, and others are right, but that is ok! It is just how we are...always trying to stay in our comfortable zone, resisting the change that leads to success! So just hang on there and don't turn around, running away just because you are afraid of the unknown...

Steve Jobs once said it...Follow your heart and intuition because somehow they already know what you truely want to become! And he was damn right!