Pain

Everybody felt pain in their lives. If you haven't felt it, that means you never took risks and probably never did anything worth it! Sometimes I wonder how much pain could a heart handle...and I never seem to find the answer. Just when you think you can't handle more you refute yourself just to find out you could still bare some more!

But what I found out about pain is that the more you suffer the happier you could become. The deeper pain has pinetrated your heart the more space there will be for happiness to set! You know, it is the same as when you take a furniture out of your house-the bigger it is, the more space there is gonna be for something better and nicer to take its place.(maybe a little bit stupid example :)...but you get the point!)

There is one more thing I figured out! If you feel pain occasionally that is fine! IT just means something is changing. But if you constantly feel pain...well that is when you have a problem! The pain felt often means refusal to change!

Sometimes we are so used to our lives,the people and things invloved that we do not realize how if we had the courage to leave,to change or whatever...how much everything could change...hopefully for the better. SOmetimes we live with memories from the past and we bring them in the present, wehn things are not the same as they used to be, but we are so stubborn to admit it that we'd rather remember the happiness from the past and suffer in the present. Instead of let go of the past,change the present and enjoy the future!

Pain is temporary. It may last a minute, or an hour, or a day, or a year, but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place...but if you just give up...it lasts forever...it might eat you up and waste the beautiful person you could be...only if you had the courage to change...